UTS: Ally - things to know
Things You Should Know as an Ally
The four basic levels of becoming an Ally
Awareness
Explore how you are different from and similar to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or transsexual and intersex people (hereafter LGBTI).
Knowledge/Education
Begin to understand policies, laws and practices and how they affect LGBTI people. Educate yourself on the many communities and cultures of non- heterosexual or non-binary gendered/sexed people.
Skills
This is an area that is difficult for many people. You must learn to take your knowledge and awareness and communicate it to others. You can acquire these skills by attending workshops, discussion with friends or peers and developing support connections.
Action
This is the most important and â€" for some â€" daunting step. Despite your trepidation, however, realise that action is the only way to affect change in society as a whole.
Other points to keep in mind
- Have a good understanding of sexual orientation and the beyond binary possibilities in both gender and biological sex and be comfortable with your own identity.
- Be aware of how “coming out†works and realise that it is not a one-time event. While we all need to “come out†to others about some aspects of ourselves and our lives, realise that having to correct misconceptions about such personal issues as sexuality and gender identity because of prevalent, heterosexist assumptions can be burdensome and tiring.
- Understand that LGBTI people receive the same social messages as everyone else and can suffer from internalised oppression. It is important to recognise the risks of coming out and to support people to challenge sexual prejudice.
- Remember that LGBTI people are a diverse group of communities and individuals with variable needs and goals, though they share some common challenges.
- Know at least the basic information about HIV/AIDS in order to address myths and misinformation.
- Be aware of current issues affecting LGBTI people.
